![]() ![]() A high-value woman isn’t waiting around for a man to respond to her text. Given the above example, that’s exactly what’s happening. These type of texts make it sound like you see him as a priority and that your life comes second to him. Finally, you’ve had enough and you text, “going to message me back?” Can you hear the clingy, needy tone in those words? You can be sure he will. It’s now early evening and instead of getting ready to go out with the girls, you’re sitting on the couch checking the screen every minute. So, you’ve sent a text at lunchtime on Friday, asking what your guy is up to on the weekend. Want to join me for food later? Did you hear about what happened to that subway dude Jarred?” ![]() I’m craving Nandos but subway could go alright. Especially because they don’t need much food. I love cats, they’re so much better than dogs. Oh, Sarah is also the name of my first cat. “Hey! So I got to work today and my college was telling me about her roommate Sarah, a different Sarah to the one I know. So, if you’re about to send a text like this: The chances of him getting back to you any time soon, are therefore pretty slim. Or, he’ll glimpse it and put the phone straight back in his pocket. More than likely, he’ll only scan a novel-sized message, therefore missing any important bits. Plus, no one actually has phones so they can read for minutes at a time. Your years of university working on dragging out topics is not a skill that needs to be practiced on men. On the flip side, don’t send him a 2000 word essay on 10 different topics. Or just talk about what you want to say in person. That way, you reduce the risk of him throwing his phone at the wall in a moment of sheer annoyance and blaming you for the cracked screen. The very simple fix is to send him one message, in a paragraph. It’s not cute, witty or funny, for the most part, unless it’s a ‘had to be there’ thing. No one wants to feel their phone vibrate or, worse, hear it go off at work 20 times in a row, with messages from the same person. This particular texting sin is a bad habit that you need to deal with, no matter who you’re sending multiple texts to. ![]() If you send texts with no thought often, chances are he’ll be too bored to even read them. Rather than expect him to come running to save you from boredom if you’re going to text at all, you might as well highlight some of that sparkling wit, intelligence or humor he likes you for. Why? Because you haven’t really put any effort in. When you’re sitting at home, bored and looking for some entertainment, think carefully before you text your new date something like, “Hey, what are you doing? – insert random, no matter how cute, emoji here.” While he might respond, chances are it’ll be with something just as basic. ![]()
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